What if your baby is a girl, but you wanted a boy? Or vice versa? What if your baby is a girl, but you wanted a boy? Or vice versa?
How do people cope when the sex of their baby isn’t the one they were hoping for? What if you were hoping for a... What if your baby is a girl, but you wanted a boy? Or vice versa?

How do people cope when the sex of their baby isn’t the one they were hoping for? What if you were hoping for a girl, but got a boy instead? Or vice versa? What if you have a definite preference? Should you just not have children?


Right now I don’t have kids, but kids has come up. I am hoping for a girl because I have heard that girls are less “wild” than boys and I am by nature a quieter person, even though I know that babies, by nature, will rock one’s world in a very loud way. But I was just wondering if anyone else has encountered this in themselves, a definite preference for one sex over the other, and how they coped once their baby was born, if that baby was born of the undesired sex. I know that it is politically incorrect to profess a preference for one sex or the other, but I was hoping that someone who has gone through this might be able to offer me some advice, because I can foresee that at some point in my life, this may possibly present a kind of complication, and I have been thinking a lot about it lately. Thanks.



Obinna Onyia

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