My daughter of 2 years old was s*xually abused by my husband cousin of 20 years old. He went to pick her in school without our permission, took her home and assaulted her. When my husband was about to go and pick her, he said he had picked her(please note that he stays with my mum in law and her house is few blocks away from the school, so he is a familiar face).
My husband was furious and told him not to pick her again. On their way home my daughter woke up in the car and my husband tried to calm her to sleep back but she refused and said ‘ I want to report uncle to my mum’ . The dad now pet her to tell him and she said ‘when I was sleeping,uncle removed my pant and touched my bombom, he now brought out his penis and put it in my bombom, I told him to stop that it was paining me but he did not answer me,I don’t want to go to uncles house again'(I teach her and her bro s*x education and 4 days before the incident I still did).
When I got back from work and she told me same thing,I straddled her to my back and went to beat the hell out of the boy. I later took her to the hospital and it was confirmed that she was abused but her virginity is still intact but her V was very red and a little bit expanded and she was complaining of pains down there.
I want to help her but don’t know how. Presently i have stopped her from going to school cause she is very vocal and can tell everyone in school about what happened. I have stop discussing the issue in her presence, I have stop mentioning the boys name in her presence and I am planing to take her to the park over the weekend to fill her brain with fun memories so that she can forget the ugly incident.
Please psychologist in the house,what more can I do to help her and am I doing the right thing with my decisions? Mamalette please feel free to advice me.And please parents, as soon as our children can communicate start teaching them sex education, it helps.