4 Ways to Protect Your Child from Sexual Predators 4 Ways to Protect Your Child from Sexual Predators
Months back, we were rocked by news that a British paedophile has admitted to sex attacks on children as young as six months across... 4 Ways to Protect Your Child from Sexual Predators

Months back, we were rocked by news that a British paedophile has admitted to sex attacks on children as young as six months across a span of almost a decade. Richard Huckle is believed to have abused up to 200 victims, mostly children from poor Christian communities in Kuala Lumpur, impressing families by taking advantage of his “relative wealth and status as a Westerner”.

He posted pictures on the dark web, a part of the Internet difficult to access and often used for illegal activity such as child pornography, and over 20,000 indecent images were found on his computer. He also kept a record of his attacks and wrote a 60-page manual called Paedophiles and Poverty: Child Love Guide, on how to select victims and avoid detection.

Huckle faces a total of 91 charges, and these include rape, taking photographs, and grooming children to expose or touch themselves or other children sexually.

This will undoubtedly come as a blow to the families who knew him and trusted him. Even when his friends were contacted, he was described as “a normal person, just very quiet”.



As a parent, you can only hope to spend every second of the day with your child to protect them from incidences like these. But realistically, you can’t. So here are some of the ways you can educate and protect your child from sexual predators:

 

Know what a sexual predator looks like

Greasy hair, shifty-looking, socially awkward? The truth is, it could be anyone. It could be a relative, your neighbour, a friend at a religious institution that you attend, or a complete stranger. This doesn’t mean you have to be suspicious of everyone. Just be aware that there is not a single profile of abuser, and you should be equally wary of each and every one around you and your child.

 

Be open

It’s almost second nature to Asians to shy away from having “the talk”. This could indirectly say to your child that sex is something to be ashamed of and if something untoward ever happens, they would be afraid to tell you. Open communication is key to build confidence in your child to talk to you honestly about anything, even potentially embarrassing matters.

 

Be clear and give concrete examples

Identify which body parts are private – you can do this during bath time. Let them know that they have to tell you when someone makes them uncomfortable, no matter who the person is or what they say. Examples could be playing a game that involves touching or taking off of clothes, a stranger claiming to be a policeman or a friend of a parent, or being introduced to inappropriate TV shows.

 

Set rules

Teach your child that their body is theirs and that it’s okay to say no. This could even include feeling uncomfortable when relatives ask for a kiss at family gatherings. Suggest a handshake or a high five instead – this will help them understand that personal boundaries are theirs to dictate.

 

Let your child know that they must tell you if someone touches them inappropriately and assure them that you won’t get angry. And of course, always keep an eye open for any changes in behavior such as reluctance to go to school or to a friend’s house, and coax them to tell you why instead of forcing them to do something they are clearly uncomfortable about doing. It’s always better to be safe than sorry – although it’s almost like a reflex, never assume that they’re just being difficult.

Dangers lurk not just amongst strangers in real life, but also in the online world. Norton by Symantec, a global leader in cyber security, released findings from the Norton Cyber Security Insights Report, highlighting parental concerns about their children in the online world, specifically on online predators and privacy. Here are some of the key highlights:

  • 62% of parents say their child has already experienced online crime
  • 64% are afraid that their children will give out too much personal information to strangers
  • 64% are concerned about their children being lured into meeting a stranger in the outside world

Measures that parents take to protect their children online:

  • 48% only allow Internet access with parental supervision
  • 45% limit the amount of information they share online about their children
  • 44% limit access to certain websites
  • 43% check the browser history of the children

Ultimately, it is important to keep all eyes and ears open online and offline – parents should also help watch out for each other’s kids as predators are devising more and more ways to get to their victims. Keep each other informed and in check!

Henry Okafor

  • Francisca Arthur

    November 26, 2016 #1 Author

    Very educative…Thanks

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  • madzinany livro

    November 26, 2016 #2 Author

    Very interesting

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  • Elexis Jones

    November 26, 2016 #3 Author

    I like how it was explained

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  • Tyler

    November 26, 2016 #4 Author

    It’s a good break down . Making the child aware, is most important.

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  • Taneisha monsanto

    November 26, 2016 #5 Author

    I love it. Great explanation

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  • Jessica

    November 26, 2016 #6 Author

    Interesting and very educational!

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  • Pamela Monroe

    November 26, 2016 #7 Author

    I think the articial is very informative ,and I strongly agree that children should not be able to use the internet without adult supervision

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  • CQuira Campbell

    November 26, 2016 #8 Author

    This is very interesting and very educational.!!

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  • Nita Dudley

    November 26, 2016 #9 Author

    Talking with your children is very important. Let them hear things from you and not their friends. Very good and informative article

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  • Toni bea

    November 26, 2016 #10 Author

    Some interesting tips

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  • Jessica

    November 26, 2016 #11 Author

    Very informative and I agree

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  • Rita Lucky

    November 26, 2016 #12 Author

    I love this. Very educative

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  • Ashiya Hogan

    November 27, 2016 #13 Author

    Great article!! Love it!

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  • DariusHarris

    November 27, 2016 #14 Author

    Great Article and very helpful to the new parents!!

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  • ashley

    November 27, 2016 #15 Author

    Definitely monitoring the use of the Internet & also making sure u are not leaving your children with any/everyone also helps .

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  • Wirdalis

    November 27, 2016 #16 Author

    Really good article

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  • Raquel

    November 27, 2016 #17 Author

    Very important!

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  • Danaisha Dickerson

    November 27, 2016 #18 Author

    Yes I absolutely agree!!!

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  • Brianna

    November 27, 2016 #19 Author

    Interesting. lots of information, my child won’t be using internet without my presence.

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  • judy wade

    November 27, 2016 #20 Author

    I like this article Im all for teaching a child early about dangers so they can be aware

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  • Chris Barnes

    November 28, 2016 #21 Author

    This article is interesting teaches younger children especially if you are a parent how to be safe as a parent i will always protect my daughter and son from any harm very good article .

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